Soon after finishing high school, T.J. Riley had a revelation. Well, maybe more of a realization, straight from the mouth of his father, longtime referee Tom Riley.
“He told me the only way I’d still be allowed to be on a football field with my lack of size is if I put on stripes,” Riley said.
Nineteen years later, Riley’s still on the field. The 39-year-old Ardmore resident has worked his way up to the Division II level as a referee. When the fall arrives, Riley will join a crew of three other Ardmore residents — Randy Tabler, Duane Christian and Robert Dalton — as officials for Lone Star Conference football games.
“For the most part we stay together; it wasn’t like that years ago,” said Dalton, 50, the head official of the group. “We know what other guys are going to do. It works out a lot better when you have a crew concept.”
Dalton and his crew, along with two alternates, will oversee about eight LSC games this season, as well as scrimmages. The LSC is their primary employer, but the group maintains independent contract status. The conference allows referees to form their own crews, which Dalton said isn’t allowed by some conferences.
The LSC will send names of referees in the area to Dalton as suggestions; he then takes the potentials to scrimmages to see how they work. Dalton has only had one crew change in eight years of working LSC games, so they’ve become quite the tight-knit group.
“The best part is you get to see a lot of really good football,” Dalton said. “You also get to get close to a lot of the guys you work with and form really good relationships. You get to go to pretty neat places and work pretty neat ball games.”
One of those places was the Division II National Semifinals last season in Maryville, Mo., where Northwest Missouri State played the University of North Alabama. Up until that point, the crew had never worked a game of such magnitude. The semifinal was broadcast on ESPN2.
“Very few officials get elected to work a playoff,” Dalton said. “I was ecstatic. I guess we did something right.”
Once the game starts, however, the feeling of ecstasy is chop-blocked by focus.
“Three things screw up a football game: too many penalties, injuries and fights,” Riley said. “We can help prevent those things.”